Who Let You in Here with that F*cking Cardigan!
By AliceSin Aerie Not long ago, in a place just near by, I was hosting a kink community party. No dress code was required at the establishment, but dressing for the theme, in fetish wear or basic black...
View ArticleYou’re Not MY Dom/me!
By AliceSin Aerie As a proponent of personal decorum, I rarely go on a public rant. However, several months ago a major peeve of mine rubbed me so raw that I went on a Twitter bender.
View ArticleCommunity [kuh-myoo-ni-tee] -noun
By AliceSin Aerie Community [kuh-myoo-ni-tee] -noun 1. a social, occupational, or other group sharing common characteristics or interests and perceived or perceiving itself as distinct in some respect...
View ArticleTrolls, Creeps and Other Volunteers
By AliceSin Aerie In every organization or party there’s always that small minority of individuals who, if you had your way, would not be on the invitation list. They are not appealing in appearance...
View ArticleKeep It Moving
By AliceSin Aerie I’m going to blow my wad right up front and tell you the best thing I know: Keep It Moving When brainstorming about this month’s column I found myself weighing out the best piece of...
View ArticleYour Word is Your Bondage
By AliceSin Aerie If it’s happened once it’s happened a thousand times: You meet someone you think you might like so you make plans, or at least make plans to communicate again, only to have them fall...
View ArticleI Do Not Want to Have “Fat Sex”
By AliceSin Aerie People who are experts in what has been dubbed “Fat Sex” want fat people to be treated with kindness and respect for their body in regards to sex. I think that is commendable. I also...
View ArticleMy Kink is Better Than Your Kink
By AliceSin Aerie Within our own minds, the thing that turns us on the most is sacred. For some of us in the kink community the high value we place on our personal kinky hot button can leave us feeling...
View ArticleVenturing into the Kink Community
By AliceSin Aerie Whether you have just stumbled into a new fascination or have been a long time private player, starting out in the social world of the kink community can be daunting. Some basic...
View ArticleGetting What You Want – 3 Things NOT to do
by AliceSin Aerie The most sure-fire way to get what you want out of any interaction is breathtakingly simple: make the other party want to give it to you. Anyone can use negative tactics & force...
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